Saturday, April 17, 2010

Knowing

Some things are kept secret for a reason. You never mean to hurt someone. Some people call it a white lie, just to keep the truth from coming out. some people call it to be saints in disguise, for me, it's just a simple act of courtesy to another person. There's certain things in life that you are not meant to know, and if you try to find out, it will tear you up.

Knowing things can sometimes be good and sometimes be bad. For instance, if you found out something you weren't suppose to know, it will end up hurting you in the end. Some people just have secrets with one another, till they really believe that the other person is trustworthy and could accept them the way they are

Being nosy and questioning too much when it's not your game will make you end yourself in despair, confusion and tears your heart into pieces.

Sometimes you might find out things that are not meant for you to know. And things get worst when you react towards it. All you have to do is to maintain a steady grip and hold your head up high. You might not think you're giving in, but being all emotional without considering others might just indicate that you've put up the white flag.

You might want to protect yourself, trying to find other reasons, trying to point your fingers to other people. To you, others just don't have the right to do so, they're insensitive, ridiculous and impossible. But don't you realize that it shows how weak you are. Being in a game is not bad, It gets bad when you don't know your role in it, and try to be in other people's shoe. You think you are in a different position, in denial of who you really were. Well, that's your mistake.

Anyway, sometimes knowing can be beneficial. Like getting to know who a person really is, how friends really are or anything in between.

But in terms of love, it's either you know things you've already known, or just leave it. The truth will eventually be revealed. All you needed was a little patience. If that's not there, what is?

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