maybe..... He's Just Not THAT Into You

Some movies are OK, some movies are great, but it is very hard to find a movie and relate it to yourself. Usually you would just walk out of the theater thinking, 'Okay, another happy ending, life goes on' or you would just state a few sentences for example 'Well, that was good' or 'I wished I've chosen a different movie' while walking to the car holding the car keys.

But this movie left a question mark in my heart. Is it really true, that most of us are normal, and that when we find a person who would actually change for us then we are the exception? Honestly, I do not have a definite answer for this, but I think every single one of us would have their own say, own opinion and experience in this matter.

One part which I love the most was when Alex told Gigi to run and Gigi replied something that goes like 'If I keep on running away from the guys who I think likes me, there will be no one left' To me, it was a very sweet and selfless thing to say.

It is indeed true that you are entitled to find the love of your life, but would you forever want to life in question marks? The beginning of the movie was true enough, we are conditioned to think that if someone treats us like s***t, means he or she likes you. FORGET IT! If someone treats you like that, it means that person means it, nothing else.

This movie indeed is a hilarious movie, suitable for easy watching, when you are awfully tired and you just need a time away alone (or with anyone) in the movie theater, this is the movie that you are looking for. Nothing to think, just watch, laugh and leave. But there are still some undeniable facts in this movie which are hilarious but true to think about....

• STOP thinking that someone likes you when he or she treats you like crap, calls you names or teases you till your heart aches. They're doing that because they mean it, nothing more, nothing less.
  
• STOP questioning yourself about the signs and symptoms that may be due to his or her feeling towards you. It is just your imagination, nothing more than just a hallucination you create so you will not feel so bad about yourself.
• If someone likes you, he or she would just go for it, so STOP imagining someone will come and be on their knees, begging you to come back. That is just plain fairy tale.
• STOP thinking that someone will change for you. It will never happen, not in a million years as everyone thinks about their selves first, including you!
  
• If someone doesn't call you, don't act like a desperado and try to call that person back. STOP hoping and dreaming and assuming that the person is on the other line waiting for your call. It just doesn't happen that way.
• STOP waiting for someone that will never turn back to look for you, just MOVE ON!